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posted: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....I have been seeing this guy for the past 10 years. He is married with 4 kids. Both of us are of different religion. When I first got to know him, he was actually dating my girlfriend. Somehow, as the days passes by he became more attached to me. In the beginning while he was dating my girl friend, my friend did not inform me that he is married. We then got serious in the relationship and over the months I found out that he is actually married after I confronted him. He admitted he is married but the marriage is not working out. We got very close till now. Lately, he is now seeing another girl who is 12 years younger than him. I have confronted him many times but each time he assures me that there is nothing going on. Yesterday, I found out that he is actually going on a trip with this girl. My heart is very painful but yet I dare not confront him and lose him altogether. I am now very depressed because I don't know where to go from here. |
 Adam360 posts
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....can't move on until you find the next guy if you ask me xP |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....Duh!yang klasing lalaking yan di dapat pag aksayahan ng luha! sayang ang beauty mo inday! |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....you can't really let it go unless you've found another one... maghanap ka na lang ng iba... |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....i am feeling so sick .... not knowing my directions ..... i still can't let go despite knowing he will be going away with this other girl... |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....Ask help from someone. You should realised what you are doing is wrong. |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....nobody can really make you feel better or take the pain away from you, you're the only one who can do that and the only one who can help you. the first step is you must realize whats going on, whats hurting you, whats the cause and to admit to yourself that you're wrong going into this kind of relationship in the first place. at the moment, i know you cant see things clearly...your friends will help you with that, the people you trust. nobody can make a decision for you, that is your job...whatever decision you make will hurt you but only one answer will make you a better person and will stop you from living miserably, im not gonna tell you the answer, you have to find it out yourself after you realize what you are doing wrong.im gonna be as straightforward as i can to intentionally hurt you and make you realize whats wrong with the whole thing. like what you just mentioned, this guy is still married but got together with your friend, now playing around with you, and while messing with you, he's hooking up with another girl...if he's doing that now, sooner or later he will do it again to his wife, to you, to the other girls and he will keep doin' it even after he got sick of you. trust me he will. you're relationship with him is not real, you're hoping it is 'coz you just wanna feel good about yourself but at the same time you're making your life miserable and you're just losing your dignity, well whatever is left of it, he's pretty much stepping on it every second of the day. i cant tell you what to do, only you can but now you just helped yourself by realizing what you're doing is wrong and seeing what's wrong with the whole situation. now after that, it is up to you what you wanna do next. remember, whatever you decide will hurt you but only one answer will make you a better person in the end. |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....isshin..... i do hear you loud and clear as well as other postings by others. i'm still trying to be strong to face the reality but i'm not ready yet. eventually i will have to do break off but i don't have the strength yet... hopefully soon. i'm losing sleep every nite thinking about the him all the time... guess it's never gonna be easy for me..... to all those out there.... i really appreciate your positive replies... it's now up to me to deal with it bravely..... please keep posting to me.... i really need you all..... take carfe |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....This maybe very random... but what's his cultural background? |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....he is muslim |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....pain takes time heal .. |
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posted: RE: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....Fox wrote: he is muslim let him go.....mahirap makisama sa muslim, maraming bawal....alam ko yan, kasi i have a gf abroad na asawa muslim....she have to change her religion from catholic to muslim, etc.......its not worth it...in my opinion.....marami naman jan na mas higit pa sa kanya....mahihirapan ka lang sa kanya....baka bukas makalawa..magsisi ka pa. |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....wag mo sanang...CAREERin ang pagiging TANGA... everybody and everything is MOViNG forward... and we should follow... we must forget the past... no matter how HARD it is for us...  and in the end.. there is a hapiness for everybody... |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....You only need to be away from him for some time(as in no contact at all), and then you will learn to let go ;D Time = best medicine i guess ;D |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....Thats sad. |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....You can't let go because you seem to have a subconscious competitive personality based on your story. The key is to be aware that you are trying to compete for a certain prize-- him.The first step is to be aware if the prize is worth it. In your case, it's not. The second step is to discern that there are, in fact, other prizes worth winning. Look around you and you'll realize that your options are quite many. The third step is to take charge of your competitive nature and divert that type of personality into more productive endeavors like your career, sports, business, or anything that involves competition such as beauty contests, races, and so on and so forth. In short, win the positive ones and discard the negative ones. |
 ♪♪♥ zeL ♥♫12 posts
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't ......,i just love him that's why.tsk. |
 ❤爱上一个陌生人❤ Chris5 posts
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....that simply means that you still love him.... thats love.....♥ |
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posted: RE: Why can't I let go...... I want to let go but I can't .....wow... |
