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Alvin
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Is your lover the right one for you?

You can be very sure about your feeling when meeting someone special but can you be equally certain whether he or she is the right one for you? I am sure many of us have the same feeling but the heart can sometime play the fool when we are not using our head.

Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner when Mr. Right or Ms Right comes along? When you are already married or in a relationship, this is when you need to search your heart and soul whether the person whom you are now attached to is compatible with you or not.

This lead us to the question of affinity. Like the song from Jewel "...you were meant for me and I were meant for you ..." What if I tell you there is an easier way to find out your affinity with someone by analyzing your natal chart using Chinese astrology known as Four Pillars of Destiny. Find out more by visiting my site
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cass
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you can never tell if your lover is the right one for you even if you got married and got children...You'll never know what will happen and might come between the couples in the future.
Ben
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You can never look into the future and you will never know what is going to happen, so it is more an issue about is it the right one for you now. If you feel happy around him and always looking forward to be with him because he makes you feel comfortable as he shows he cares, if you miss him if he is not around and always think about him, if you feel that you only want him and can not think of any other, if you feel that his happiness is more important to you then your own and if you feel that you are ready to spend the rest of your life with him and feel that you truly love him and he gives you the feeling that he truly loves you then you found the right one. However, always remember that people can change and feelings also can change. There is no such person as the perfect man or perfect woman. If you are waiting for that then you will never find the right one. It takes time to get a person well and develop true feelings as described above. It will not come in one week or month but it has to grow and when you feel you met the right one then go for it and don’t think about what can happen in the far future.

mari*car
575 posts
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I thought he did................but i was wrong......you can never tell what's store for you....you can never predict anything even if you wish to...
Ellen Christine
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Only time can tell if my lover is the right one for me...i desperately hope that he's the one....but i do believe that LOVE IS ANOT ABOUT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON, BUT CREATING A RIGHT RELATIONSHIP. IT'S NOT ABOUT HOW MUCH LOVE YOU HAVE IN THE BEGINNING BUT HOW MUCH LOVE YOU BUILT TILL THE END THAT COUNTS...
Dudung
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Astrology?

Uhm. No way. Love is a serious matter and relationships need to be worked on to make it right. There is no such thing as Mister or Miss Right-- only mutual desire to make the relationship work for a lifetime.
A
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RedSuaveSlayer wrote:
Astrology?

Uhm. No way. Love is a serious matter and relationships need to be worked on to make it right. There is no such thing as Mister or Miss Right-- only mutual desire to make the relationship work for a lifetime.

For mr and mrs. right it is easy to make a relations lifetime if both of you have a self discipline to do it right from the very beginning you know what things to do and not to do but sometimes because one of you is trying to himself or herself in risk so time will come your relations will come to at risk and you ask your self is my lover right for me? but you know if we wanted to make it right we can do it anyway by avoiding the most worst thing in our relation. natural cause that will be normal but if not that a big problem in your relation or that makes your lover not right to him/her.