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Musette Spenser 8437 posts	posted: Is it still considered cheating? Another dumb question from me. Wehe Is it still considered cheating if the case is like this? Let’s say, there’s a boy and girl. The girl lost her feelings for the boy but the guy the still loves her, and he told her that he badly needs her in his life…so, the girl decided to make herself suffer and continue their relationship. NOW, the girl found someone else to love, she’s dating him, they’re texting and/or calling each other everyday and night. The boy knows that the girl is seeing another man, but the girl is denying it (maybe because she doesn’t want to hurt him or idk). Sooo, is that cheating? I know, I know, yes it is cheating, but what the hell? The girl doesn’t love the guy anymore, and the reason why she’s still with him is because he begged for her; he knew it will happen.

jean 56 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? My Lady wrote: Another dumb question from me. Wehe Is it still considered cheating if the case is like this? Let’s say, there’s a boy and girl. The girl lost her feelings for the boy but the guy the still loves her, and he told her that he badly needs her in his life…so, the girl decided to make herself suffer and continue their relationship. NOW, the girl found someone else to love, she’s dating him, they’re texting and/or calling each other everyday and night. The boy knows that the girl is seeing another man, but the girl is denying it (maybe because she doesn’t want to hurt him or idk). Sooo, is that cheating? I know, I know, yes it is cheating, but what the hell? The girl doesn’t love the guy anymore, and the reason why she’s still with him is because he begged for her; he knew it will happen. When the girl decided to stay with the guy even she knows that she will suffer .... this means the girl gave her word to the guy even it was just out of sympathy bcoz he begged for it ..... there was an agreement between them .... they are in a relationship ..... which means that anyone of them who would see or date another person without the knowledge of the other would be considered as an act of cheating .... And not being inlove with the guy isnt an excuse for the girl so she would come out clean ..... she is still cheating on the guy .... If she doesnt want to be called or referred to as the cheater ... its best that she should get out of their relationship .... explain everything to the guy ... tell him that their relationship will NEVER work bcoz she doesnt love him ... bcoz she is inlove with someone else ... and SYMPATHY could NEVER be an enough reason to keep them together .......

Musette Spenser 8437 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? Uhm, dapat nga mag bbreak na sila, eh ayaw nga ng lalake :[ Sabi nung girl, "nag wworry lang ako, kasi ggraduate na siya, baka pag iniwan ko bigla ng mapariwara, sayang naman." Kasi yung lalake medyo 'suicidal'. According to his friends, nung iniwan daw yun ng ex niya, muntik na daw malulong sa droga, buti na lang na-kilala niya agad yung girl dun sa tanong ko (she's my friend), kaya medyo tumino-tino yung buhay niya ng konti.

Kairi 176 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? I'd just like to say the girl is stupid for entering in a relationship where she doesn't love the guy in the first place. I pity the guy. She is commited to the guy and she's dating or seeing someone else, yes it is cheating.

Musette Spenser 8437 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? Awww, I don't wanna be biased, wehehe, but the girl continued the relationship because the guy begged her.

Kairi 176 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? You can't commit to someone just because he or she begged you. That's ridiculous haha :D

Musette Spenser 8437 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? But she did it. Well...she's unfaithful. XDDDD

Leslie 579 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? the worst thing the girl did is letting the relationship continue, they could have stop it before that cheating issue happened. they could have been avoid complications, they could be a good friends after the seperation..

mari*car 544 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? ITS CHEATING, STILL. THE BEST WAY IS BREAK UP WITH THE GUY. KUNG HINDI NYA PALA MAHAL, SHE DONT HAVE TO MAKE HERSELF SUFFER, MAY CHOICE NAMAN SYA EH KUNG TUTUUSIN. DONT STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP JUST FOR THE HECK OF IT.....NEVER MAG STAY SA ISANG RELASYON DAHIL LANG SA AWA...........YOU WILL SUFFER MOST AT MAY MASASAKTAN KA LALO......KUNG WALANG LOVE, GET THE HELL OUT OF IT!

Musette Spenser 8437 posts	posted: RE: RE: Is it still considered cheating? mari_car wrote: ITS CHEATING, STILL. THE BEST WAY IS BREAK UP WITH THE GUY. KUNG HINDI NYA PALA MAHAL, SHE DONT HAVE TO MAKE HERSELF SUFFER, MAY CHOICE NAMAN SYA EH KUNG TUTUUSIN. DONT STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP JUST FOR THE HECK OF IT.....NEVER MAG STAY SA ISANG RELASYON DAHIL LANG SA AWA...........YOU WILL SUFFER MOST AT MAY MASASAKTAN KA LALO......KUNG WALANG LOVE, GET THE HELL OUT OF IT! Kalma lang. It's not me, it's my friend. XD

mari*car 544 posts	posted: RE: RE: RE: Is it still considered cheating? My Lady wrote: mari_car wrote: ITS CHEATING, STILL. THE BEST WAY IS BREAK UP WITH THE GUY. KUNG HINDI NYA PALA MAHAL, SHE DONT HAVE TO MAKE HERSELF SUFFER, MAY CHOICE NAMAN SYA EH KUNG TUTUUSIN. DONT STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP JUST FOR THE HECK OF IT.....NEVER MAG STAY SA ISANG RELASYON DAHIL LANG SA AWA...........YOU WILL SUFFER MOST AT MAY MASASAKTAN KA LALO......KUNG WALANG LOVE, GET THE HELL OUT OF IT! Kalma lang. It's not me, it's my friend. XD AY OO NGA PALA..........HAHAHAHA

ejboy 109 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? oo nga cheating yan!...nakatulong ba ako?

Adam 250 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? lol yea cheating... sadly this reminds me of my last ex >_> rofl

Adam 250 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? just that i would be the girl and she would be the guy in this situation heh XP

Cita 420 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? That guy is totally moron and the girl is dumbed stupid either both deserves each other. Now the case is complicated because both of this two people are both dysfunctional when it comes to handle a relationship. The guy is completely short minded, has no self-esteem, can't find another woman who will love and honest to the realtionship. He is completely insane he needs a "brain surgery" to loosen the wires in his mess up brain. The woman is more than a cheater she knows how it feels to be with somebody whom she's not in love anymore what the hell is she doing in that situation just trying to comfort or pretending that everything still the same, she is a big fat liar! She needs to be out and forget the guy if he can't accept breaking up with her just let him suffer you are not a mother to pamper him anytime he will have tantrums let him grow up and accept the facts for the truth. You are only making things so awkward and seriously damaging to your self and to him too.

Malisxa_♥ 1081 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? She cheating. :[ its sad to force yourself by entering a relationship you don't wanna be in.

ApHriLLe 3653 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? madame na akong kilala na nag suicide sa mga ganyan. . sa huli sinisi ng solido nung family nung guy yung girl. Kung super suicidal yung boy, dapat pagtiisan muna nung girl and dahan dahanin niya na maging super cold, magsasawa ren yung boy. . yung parang ganun nalang lagi, walang thrill. well, baka sila ang nagkaunahan kaya ganyan? pero yung sa topic, cheating si girl. .

Dudung 4883 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? The girl is an emotional hostage from the emotional blackmail of the guy. Just like in any hostage-taking situation, the US policy is a hardline 'No Negoatiations Policy.' The Philippine policy meanwhile is a 'Give Ransom Payments and Take Commissions Policy.' What the girl needs is a psychological deterrent against the hostage-taking of her emotions. The guy is simply an emotional terrorist who needs to be treated just like that-- a terrorist who is ready to die for his beliefs no matter what. I say let him die so the girl becomes emotionally free. An emotional terrorist is not worth cheating for. The girl cheated herself more and the guy she loves rather than the emotional terrorist who held her psychologically hostage.

anne loraine ツ 36 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? NO?! FIRST, UMAYAW NA PLA TLGA UNG GIRL. SECOND, SELFISHNESS UN NUNG GUY. MAS SASAKTAN LNG NIA SARILI NIA BY HOLDING ON TO SOMEONE NOT HOLDING BACK. THIRD, THE GIRL IS NOT CHEATING. SHE'S JUST BEING UNFAIR. UNFAIR TO HERSELF, UNFAIR TO THE BF, AND UNFAIR TO THE GUY SHE'S DATING. GETS? SA PRESENT SITUATION NILANG 3, NO ONE'S GETTING THE REAL BENEFIT. NAGLOLOKOHAN LANG SILA. IF I WERE THE GIRL, I'LL BREAK UP WITH THE BF NICELY EXPLAINING EVERYTHING. TULAD NG SABI MO, BIGLANG NAWALA UNG FEELINGS? HINDI NIA NMANG PINILIT MAWALA UN DBA. IT'S NOBODY'S FAULT. LET GO OF EACH OTHER NALANG, PRA FAIR.. REMEMBER: RELATIONSHIP IS NOT ABOUT PITY, IT'S ALL ABOUT LOVE BABY. :))

Miss_Jhay 2 posts	posted: RE: Is it still considered cheating? Yes it is.. if she's just true to herself at the start it wouldn't be like this, she should have told the guy that she doesn't have anymore feelings for him.. End whatever it is. aye, that'll hurt..but it is worse now because she is in love with someone else, and she's hiding it from him.. well, that's pretty off.. very.